there more women than men in hell?
by Ruqaiyyah Waris Maqsood
I have often pondered the attitude of many pious Muslims who although they
dearly love Allah and His Messenger (Allah bless him and give him peace)
nevertheless seem to have a reverence based on fear. If one reads the
Quran and hadith collections, it is as plain as the nose on your face that
the chief characteristic of our dear Lord Allah is His Compassion, His
understanding love. The fact that He is the Compassionate, the Merciful
introduces every surah except surah 9 (probably because it is most likely a
continuation of surah 8) and every prayer. Yes, there is sternness and
justice when dealing with evil, but above all, there is enormous compassion
for weakness and mistakes. The Almighty our Creator knows full well that we
are but human beings, full of faults and sins and disappointments and
blind-spots. It is one of the greatest blessings that when it comes to
punishing us for our failings, our Lord does not judge as a human being
does, but in a way we can never fully understand or appreciate. His
compassion is so far above our own.
As He revealed to us in the Quran, if He punished us according to what we
deserved, there would be left on earth no living thing. (Surah 35:45).
Similarly, our beloved Prophet (Allah bless him and give him peace) was the
living example for us of all the qualities Allah wished us to encourage and
build up in ourselves. He was gentle, and kind, and honourable, and brave,
taking the side of the helpless, the children, the destitute, the abused
women. He did this even before his call to Prophethood, for it was the main
aim of the Order of Chivalry (the Hilf al-Fudul) founded by his uncle
Zubayr b. Abd al-Muttalib, and the chief of Taym, Abdallah b. Judaan.
So, whenever we come across a bald statement in the writings that seems to
be out of keeping, and looks as if our beloved Prophet (Allah bless him and
give him peace) couldnt possibly have said that for it does not ring true
with what we know about him, we must look a little deeper to see if there
is some aspect of it that we have perhaps missed. Needless to say, the very
first rule of judging whether or not a hadith is reliable is to test it
against the teaching and spirit of the Quran. Any hadith that disagrees
with the Quran cannot possibly be genuine.
The western media is frequently accused of misunderstanding Islam, so let
us look briefly at a few stunning headlines that might have appeared
shortly before 632 CE. They all give pause for thought.
Prophet dooms young orphan girl to early death.
Prophet curses favourite wife from his death-bed.
Prophet insists Paradise is denied to old women.
Prophet rages: Hell is two-thirds full of women!
None of these headlines would sound at all right to anyone who knows
anything about Islam. All the Prophets (Allah bless him and give him
peace) words, actions and way of life reveal him as a man of gentleness,
kindness, humility, good humour and excellent common sense, who had a great
love for all people, especially for his family. Aishah said of him: The
Prophet (Allah bless him and give him peace) never abused or spoke ill of
anybody. He forgave faults and refrained from retaliation. He never thought
of taking personal revenge, forgave non-believers promptly on their
conversion to Islam; never fought on personal grounds; took an interest in
his household affairs; condemned vendettas and blood feuds; and never beat
anyone, not even a slave. When Aishah was asked what the Prophet (Allah
bless him and give him peace) was like at home, she said: He does what you
all do in your houses he also patches his clothes and repairs his shoes,
and feeds his goats. He used to serve his family, and help them in their
household chores until the time came for prayer, and then he would go out.
She said: He was more bashful than a maiden in seclusion, but when he
disliked something, we could see it immediately in his face.
He never used to speak badly of people, following the principle that if you
couldnt say something good, then say nothing at all. He disliked
whispering and sniggering. He once said: If you are three people, two of
you should not speak in a confidential manner in the presence of the third
until you mix with other people, because that brings sadness to the heart
of the third person, who feels left out, and alienates him. Those who
spoke with him knew that they would be treated with courtesy, forbearance,
modesty and trust. He disliked raised voices, and never shouted or uttered
obscene words, or indulged in fault-finding. He simply ignored what he did
not like, and did not make a fuss about it.
Moreover, he was very kind, and never gossiped or made known the
shortcomings of anyone, or exposed their defects to others. He did not
attempt to find out peoples secrets, and when told them, he never declared
them to others. The one thing he did hate was lying. Aishah recorded: No
habit was more disgusting to him than telling a lie. If he found out about
anyone lying, he kept away from that person until they were genuinely sorry
for it. Yet if he disapproved of something, he never told the person
directly or abruptly, but simply let his wishes be known tactfully.
He also hated suspicion, and said: Suspicion is the worst of false tales;
and do not look for the others' faults and do not spy, and do not be
jealous of one another, and do not desert (cut your relation with) one
another, and do not hate one another; and O Allah's worshippers! Be
brothers (as Allah has ordered you)! (Bukhari 8.90).
The Prophet (Allah bless him and give him peace) believed in good manners,
always greeting people kindly, showing respect to elders. He was never
arrogant or superior despite his eminent position as leader, making
no-one ever feel small, unwanted or embarrassed. People who sat in his
company never felt that he was rude to them, or that he ignored or
neglected them. When he shook hands with someone, he was never the first to
withdraw his hand. He would not break off a conversation until he was sure
the person had finished and was ready to turn away, and he never turned his
face away from the person he was talking to.
He had done that once in the early days in Makkah, when blind Abdallah b.
Umm Maktum came to interrupt him with a question about one of the revealed
verses. At the time he was deep in conversation with Walid b. Mughirah and
his influential friends Uqbah and Shaybah b. Rabiah, Abu Jahl and Umayyah
b. Khalaf. The Prophets (Allah bless him and give him peace) momentary
impatience earned him a violent headache and temporary partial blindness,
and a rebuke from Allah that came in the revelation of Surah 80:1-16. For
years after that he used to greet Abdallah with the words: Salaam to the
one on behalf of whom my Sustainer has rebuked me. This was the Ibn Umm
Maktum (called both Abdallah and Amr in the sources) who was frequently
deputised to lead the prayers in Madinah when the Prophet (Allah bless him
and give him peace) was on his expeditions.
Some people have supposed the Prophet (Allah bless him and give him peace)
to have been a severe, austere man, but in fact he was always smiling. One
companion said of him: I have seen no person smiling more than the
Messenger of Allah (Allah bless him and give him peace). Aishah said: He
was the softest and most kind of all people; and he was a man like you,
except that he was cheerful and smiling.
When people laughed, he laughed with them. Although his laugh was usually
no more than a smile, sometimes it was said of him that he threw back his
head and laughed so completely that his teeth shone like white hailstones.
There are many hadiths recording how the Prophet (Allah bless him and give
him peace) laughed so heartily at something that people could see his molar
teeth! For example, when Aishah as a child argued with him about her model
horses with wings, and pointed out that Solomon had such horses, Thereupon
the Apostle of Allah (peace be upon him) laughed so heartily that I could
see his molar teeth. (Abu Dawud 2316).
During one time of drought he prayed for rain, and the rain fell by
Allah's permission, and before he reached his mosque streams were flowing.
When he saw the speed with which the people were seeking shelter, he (peace
be upon him) laughed till his back teeth were visible. Then he said: I
testify that Allah is Omnipotent and that I am Allah's servant and
apostle. (Abu Dawud 452).
Examples of many other hadiths making a point of mentioning the Prophets
(Allah bless him and give him peace) laughter are Bukhari 3.157;Bukhari
6.466; Bukhari 8.299; Bukhari 9.510; and Muslim 82;
He had, in fact, a whimsical sense of humour, revealed in many of his
sayings, and the nicknames he gave people. For example, any lady who was
called Barrah immediately got her name changed to something else, for
barrah meant good, and the Prophet (Allah bless him and give him peace)
explained that if he did not change that name he would never be able to say
goodbye, for it hurt him to bid farewell to the Good.
Other nicknames included Abu Hurayrah (Father of the little cat so
called because when he worked as a shepherd he used to keep a kitten), and
Abu Turab (Father of dust the Prophets (Allah bless him and give him
peace) name for his son-in-law Ali, who used to throw dust on himself
whenever he and Fatimah had a disagreement).
The Prophets (Allah bless him and give him peace) wives were known as the
glass vessels. Anas recorded how he and Umm Sulaym had been in company
with the Prophets (Allah bless him and give him peace) wives once while
they were travelling in howdahs, being hurried along by Anjashas singing.
Gently, O Anjasha, cried the Prophet (Allah bless him and give him peace)
to the camel-driver. Be careful these camels are carrying delicate glass
vessels. Dont break them.(Muslim 5746).
One day when they were digging the Ditch before the Battle of al-Ahzab the
Prophet (Allah bless him and give him peace) fell asleep from sheer
exhaustion, and Abu Bakr and Umar stood guard over him keeping the
labourers away so that he could sleep in peace. Zayd b. Thabit, who was
just sixteen and preparing for his first experience of battle, also fell
asleep. Umarah b. Hazm played a practical joke on him, stealing his clothes
and tools, and hiding them. Thus Zayd earned the nickname Abu Ruqad (the
Sleepy One or Father of Dreams).
One of the keenest diggers was the little beetle, Amr b. Suraqah
(Juayl). One of his companions gave rhythm to his digging with the song:
His name he changed, Juayl to Amr, gave the poor man that day his help.
The Prophet (Allah bless him and give him peace) joined in by only shouting
the words at the end of each line loudly, making people laugh.
Surely it would be improper for a prophet of God to have a sense of humour?
Far from it - it only seems improper to those who have not read about the
Prophet (Allah bless him and give him peace) with understanding. In fact,
he was not a dour pronouncer of doom except when such pronouncements were
necessary - he was a man who was attractive and alive with humour, forever
drawing people to the faith, not driving them away. He once said: The
dearest of you to me are those who have good manners; the most offensive to
me are the most boring and the long-winded!
Umar b. Khattab recorded that during the lifetime of the Prophet (Allah
bless him and give him peace) there was a man called Abdullah whose
nickname was Donkey, who regularly used to make the Prophet (Allah bless
him and give him peace) laugh. One day the Prophet (Allah bless him and
give him peace) had him flogged because of drinking alcohol. A little later
he was brought back again on the same charge and was lashed again. At that,
one of the men said, O Allah, curse him! How frequently he has been
brought (to the Prophet on such a charge)! The Prophet said: Do not curse
him, for by Allah, I know for he loves Allah and His Apostle. (Bukhari
Nothing enraged him, and he despised no-one except those overcome by
evil, who were opposed to Allah and His ways. Even so, it was not the
person, but the evil that had taken hold of them that was despised. Once
any such person repented and turned back to good, he or she was accepted
instantly, and forgiven both by Allah and His Messenger (Allah bless him
and give him peace). He did not take offence at anything and then take
revenge on the person who offended him, unless the sacred things of Allah
had been violated, in which case he would only take revenge for the sake of
Allah. He certainly never made unpleasant remarks designed to hurt or spite
However, sometimes his remarks were given with dry humour, which has been
misinterpreted by those who have taken such statements literally. For
example, the Prophet (Allah bless him and give him peace) took a dim view
of Muslims who could not manage to offer a few prayers during the
nightreferring to them as those in whose ears the Devil has urinated! He
did not mean this literally.
Once he made an old lady cry by teasing her that there would be no old
women in Paradise. She was devastated until he explained that what he meant
was that Allah would make all old people young again.
Once Umm Ayman asked him if she could have a camel. He commented that he
would only mount her on the offspring of a she-camel. Umm Ayman was hardly
satisfied and pointed out that it would not be able to bear her weight.
Mother, the Prophet (Allah bless him and give him peace) insisted, I
will only mount you on the offspring of a she-camel At last she realised
he was joking with her, for all camels were offspring of she-camels!
Qaswah was the Prophets (Allah bless him and give him peace) favourite
camel, and was with him until he died, having shared many significant
moments with him notably the hijrah, the pilgrimages, the surrender of
Makkah, and the Final Pilgrimage. She was not only famous, but very fleet
of foot, and was never beaten in a race until a Bedouin on a much younger
camel finally succeeded. They hardly dared inform the Prophet (Allah bless
him and give him peace) of this humiliation, but knowing that all
creatures slow down with old age, he merely smiled and said: Allah has the
right to humiliate those who rise high in the world.
At the Battle of Khaybar the Prophets (Allah bless him and give him peace)
forces were assisted by Umm Sulaym who came with an orphan girl she had
raised in her household as her own daughter. The Prophet (Allah bless him
and give him peace) saw her and teased her: How can that be you? You seem
to have grown younger! May you never advance in years. The poor girl
totally misunderstood him, and Umm Sulaym found her in tears. She explained
that the Prophet (Allah bless him and give him peace) had cursed her so
that she would never live to old age. Umm Sulaym rushed straightway to
confront him with this outrage. He smiled and said: Umm Sulaym, dont
worry. I have made a bargain with my Lord - I am only human, and am pleased
or in bad temper like any other person; but I asked Allah that if I ever
cursed a person who did not deserve it, then Allah would on the contrary
let that be a source of purity and nearness to Him for that person, on the
Day of Resurrection. (Muslim 6297).
After the Farewell Pilgrimage at the Eid prayer, the Prophet (Allah bless
him and give him peace) walked past the men leaning on Bilals arm, and
came to the rows of women behind them. Bilal spread out a cloth and the
Prophet (Allah bless him and give him peace) urged the women to be generous
with their gifts of charity, for when he had been allowed a glimpse into
the flames of Hell, he had noted that most of the people being tormented
there were women. The women were outraged, and one of them instantly stood
up boldly and demanded to know why that was so. Because, he replied, you
women grumble so much, and show ingratitude to your husbands! Even if the
poor fellows spent all their lives doing good things for you, you have only
to be upset at the least thing and you will say, 'I have never received any
good from you! (Bukhari 1.28, recorded by Ibn Abbas who was present on
that occasion as a child). At that the women began vigorously to pull off
their rings and ear-rings, and throw them into Bilals cloth.
Even on his deathbed the Prophet (Allah bless him and give him peace) made
characteristic remarks. He had requested Abu Bakr to lead the prayers in
his place, but he heard Umars voice and demanded an explanation. Aishah
admitted she had sent Umar, explaining that her father was too distressed
and overcome with emotion, his voice shook, and he wept when he recited the
Quran. The Prophet (Allah bless him and give him peace) insisted it was to
be Abu Bakr, and called Aishah one of the women of Joseph (that is, one
of those who were tempted to seduce the Prophet Yusuf/Joseph (Allah bless
him and give him peace). He also used the statement may your hand be cut
off. He had only said those words fondly, but when he noticed later that
Aishah kept looking at her hands he asked her what was the matter. She told
him she was wondering which hand she would lose!
Thus it is that reading and pondering deeply on the hadiths pays enormous
rewards to those who love the Prophet (Allah bless him and give him peace).
Phrases that had at first seemed like teachings hostile to women when taken
out of context suddenly bring us close to our Messenger, and we feel
instead his love and humour and humanity.
In conclusion, perhaps we should note that it was not only the Prophets
(Allah bless him and give him peace) humour that was sometimes
misunderstood, but even straightforward statements.
For example, it was the normal practice of the female Companions to pray in
the mosque, with no sutrah dividing them from their men. They prayed behind
them, but with no dividing walls or curtains which one could argue might
have invalidated their prayer in congregation. Yet nowadays, in some
places we find devout brothers in Islam depriving women of their rightful
place in the mosque by quoting the hadith that it is better for women to
pray at home. Where did this originate? In fact, it came from an occasion
when an elderly and arthritic Muslim ladyUmm Humaydexpressed her regret
to the Prophet (Allah bless him and give him peace) that although she
longed to pray behind him in the mosque, as so many others did, she was not
able to be there. The Prophet (Allah bless him and give him peace) told her
not to be concerned about this, it was better for her to pray in her own
home (Abu Dawud 570). Many male Muslims have misguidedly used this hadith
to try to prevent their women from going to mosques, and have turned them
into male clubs where any women who do go feel obtrusive, shy and
pushy, when it is obvious from so many other hadiths that it was the
normal practice in Madinah for them to go. For example, Caliph Umars
grandson tried to prevent his wife, but was over-ruled by his father since
the Prophet (Allah bless him and give him peace) had encouraged them
saying: Do not prevent the handmaids of Allah from attending the mosque.
Muslim 888, Abu Dawud 568.
Sometimes the supposed anti-female hadith seems completely untrue. One such
hadith was the one that no nation that allowed itself to be ruled by a
woman would prosper. This may have been an example of one of the Prophets
(Allah bless him and give him peace) wry comments, but it is suspect for it
was only quoted for the first time by Abu Bakra just before the Battle of
Siffin, some thirty years after the Prophets (Allah bless him and give him
peace) death. The reason was that the troops opposing Caliph Ali were in
fact being led by a woman, none other than the Prophets (Allah bless him
and give him peace) beloved wife Aishah!
The hadith seems in direct opposition to the words of the Quran to the
ruling Queen of Sheba in the time of the Prophet Sulayman (Solomon), who
ruled over the most wealthy and well-known people in the history of Arabia.
She was asked to accept Islam, but not to give up her rule (Surah 27:23-44).
Indeed, some feel that Abu Bakras testimony should be held in doubt
anyway, since he had previously been flogged for a fraudulent statement,
and the shariah ruling was that after such an offence the persons word
should never again be upheld as reliable in a court of law. However, Abu
Bakra was a noble Companion who had converted to Islam from Taif, and who
related several hadiths. His offence concerned the case of Mugheera b.
Shu'ba, a man known for his weakness for women. He would marry women and
would divorce them after some time to make room for more beautiful faces.
In this way, he married no less than 80 wives, taking steps to ensure that
at a time his wives were not more than four, the limit prescribed by the
In those days at Basra, there was a beautiful woman Umm Jamil. She belonged
to the same tribe as that of Mugheera. Her husband had died and she became
notorious for loose morals. Mugheera was attracted by her and she visited
Some Muslims in Basra became critical of the conduct of Mugheera. Among
them was Abu Bakra Thaqeefi whose house across the street faced the house
One day a strong wind blew and the windows of the houses of Abu Bakra and
Mugheera got opened through the force of the wind. He saw through the
window that in this house Mugheera was locked in an uncompromising state
with a woman. He thought that the woman was Umm Jamil. He had some friends
with him, and they also saw Mugheera involved with a woman.
Abu Bakra wrote to Caliph Umar accusing Mugheera of adultery. The report
was endorsed by four witnesses who had seen Mugheera in an uncompromising
state with a woman. Umar took prompt action. Umar appointed Abu Musa as the
Governor of Basra and removed Mugheera from the office. Mugheera was
summoned to Madinah to face trial. Abu Bakra and the other witnesses who
had made the complaint were also summoned to Madinah.
At the trial, Mugheera pleaded not guilty. His defence was that the woman
in question was his wife and not Umm Jamil. With great indignation he
averred that Abu Bakra and the men with him had no right to interfere in
his privacy. Abu Bakra on the other hand maintained that the woman was Umm
Jamil. Three other witnesses corroborated the statement of Abu Bakra. The
fourth witness Ziyad stated that he had seen the event, but he had not seen
the face of the woman and did not know who she was. The other witnesses
were cross examined, and it was found that there were some weak points in
their evidence. They were asked whether the woman had her back or her face
toward them. They said that she had their back to them. They tried to make
out that even from her back she could be identified as Umm Jamil. They
argued that the scandal of Mugheera and Umm Jamil was very common in Basra,
and that lady was none else but Umm Jamil.
Under the Quranic law in order to press the charge of adultery definite
evidence of four witnesses was necessary. As in this case the fourth
witness was not sure of the identification of the woman, Mugheera was given
the benefit of doubt and acquitted. Abu Bakra and his companions who had
levelled the charge were punished with lashes for making a charge which
could not be established. Such was the care that was taken with evidence
for adultery in those days! However, one feels that Abu Bakra did not
deserve his flogging.
In spite of his acquittal, Mugheera was not restored to the office of the
Governor, and was detained in Madinah. He made some show of indignation at
having been treated shabbily in a case which was false. Umar called him to
his presence and issued the warning: "O Mugheera offer thanks to God that
full evidence was not forthcoming against you, and you have been saved from
disgrace by a technical flaw. Grounds of suspicion against you were very
much there, and I have given you the benefit of doubt. Remember that if the
evidence was complete, you would have been stoned to death." (From the
lives of the Caliphs, Alim CD).
I would like to examine more closely the saying about Hell being two-thirds
full of women. The hadith in fact came in several different versions, based
on two quite separate occasions - the first being the collection of alms
after the Eid prayer, as I have presented it in my article, and the second
being the day of the tragic death of the Prophets (Allah bless him and
give him peace) son Ibrahim, when an eclipse occurred. Added phrases
mention the womens practice of Islam as being inferior to that of the men.
Taking the eclipse sayings first:
Abdullah bin Abbas (who was also the source of the hadith given in Bukhari
1:28, where the occasion was the Eid prayer) narrated: The sun eclipsed in
the lifetime of the Prophet (Allah bless him and give him peace). Allah's
Apostle offered the eclipse prayer and stood for a long period equal to the
time in which one could recite Surat-al-Baqara. Then he bowed for a long
time and then stood up for a long period which was shorter than that of the
first standing, then bowed again for a long time but for a shorter period
than the first; then he prostrated twice and then stood up for a long
period which was shorter than that of the first standing; then he bowed for
a long time which was shorter than the previous one, and then he raised his
head and stood up for a long period which was shorter than the first
standing, then he bowed for a long time which was shorter than the first
bowing, and then prostrated (twice) and finished the prayer. By then, the
sun (eclipse) had cleared. The Prophet then said, "The sun and the moon are
two of the signs of Allah. They eclipse neither because of the death of
somebody nor because of his life (i.e. birth). So when you see them,
remember Allah." The people say, "O Allah's Apostle! We saw you taking
something from your place and then we saw you retreating." The Prophet
replied, "I saw Paradise and stretched my hands towards a bunch (of its
fruits) and had I taken it, you would have eaten from it as long as the
world remains. I also saw the Hell-fire and I had never seen such a
horrible sight. I saw that most of the inhabitants were women." The people
asked, "O Allah's Apostle! Why is it so?" The Prophet replied, "Because of
their ungratefulness." It was asked whether they are ungrateful to Allah.
The Prophet said, "They are ungrateful to their companions of life
(husbands) and ungrateful to good deeds. If you are benevolent to one of
them throughout the life and if she sees anything (undesirable) in you, she
will say, 'I have never had any good from you.' " (Buk 2.161).
Buk 7.125 gives the first part the same as the above, and continues: "I saw
Paradise (or Paradise was shown to me), and I stretched my hand to pluck a
bunch (of grapes), and had I plucked it, you would have eaten of it as long
as this world exists. Then I saw the (Hell) Fire, and I have never before,
seen such a horrible sight as that, and I saw that the majority of its
dwellers were women." The people asked, "O Allah's Apostle! What is the
reason for that?" He replied, "Because of their ungratefulness." It was
said. "Do they disbelieve in Allah (are they ungrateful to Allah)?" He
replied, "They are not thankful to their husbands and are ungrateful for
the favours done to them. Even if you do good to one of them all your life,
when she seems some harshness from you, she will say, "I have never seen
any good from you.' "
Now let us consider the Eid sayings:
Abu Said al-Khudri narrated: Once Allah's Apostle went out to the Musalla
(to offer the prayer) on 'Id-al-Adha or al-Fitr prayer. Then he passed by
the women and said, "O women! Give alms, as I have seen that the majority
of the dwellers of Hell-fire were you (women)." They asked, "Why is it so,
O Allah's Apostle?" He replied, "You curse frequently and are ungrateful to
your husbands. I have not seen anyone more deficient in intelligence and
religion than you. A cautious sensible man could be led astray by some of
you." The women asked, "O Allah's Apostle! What is deficient in our
intelligence and religion?" He said, "Is not the evidence of two women
equal to the witness of one man?" They replied in the affirmative. He said,
"This is the deficiency in her intelligence. Isn't it true that a woman can
neither pray nor fast during her menses?" The women replied in the
affirmative. He said, "This is the deficiency in her religion." (Bukhari
According to Bukhari 2.541 Abu Said al-Khudri narrated: On 'Id ul Fitr or
'Id ul Adha Allah's Apostle (p.b.u.h) went out to the Musalla. After
finishing the prayer, he delivered the sermon and ordered the people to
give alms. He said, "O people! Give alms." Then he went towards the women
and said. "O women! Give alms, for I have seen that the majority of the
dwellers of Hell-Fire were you (women)." The women asked, "O Allah's
Apostle! What is the reason for it?" He replied, "O women! You curse
frequently, and are ungrateful to your husbands. I have not seen anyone
more deficient in intelligence and religion than you. O women, some of you
can lead a cautious wise man astray." Then he left. And when he reached his
house, Zainab, the wife of Ibn Mas'ud, came and asked permission to enter
it was said, "O Allah's Apostle! It is Zainab." He asked, "Which Zainab?"
The reply was that she was the wife of Ibn Mas'ud. He said, "Yes, allow her
to enter." And she was admitted. Then she said, "O Prophet of Allah! Today
you ordered people to give alms and I had an ornament and intended to give
it as alms, but Ibn Mas'ud said that he and his children deserved it more
than anybody else." The Prophet replied, "Ibn Mas'ud had spoken the truth.
Your husband and your children had more right to it than anybody else."
In Muslim 31 Abdullah ibn Umar narrated: The Messenger of Allah observed: O
women, you should give charity and ask for much forgiveness for I saw you
in majority amongst the dwellers of Hell. A wise lady among them said: Why
is it, Messenger of Allah, that our gender is in majority in Hell? Upon
this the Holy Prophet observed: You curse too much and are ungrateful to
your spouses. I have seen none lacking in common sense and failing in
religion but (at the same time) robbing the wisdom of the wise, besides
you. Upon this the woman remarked: What is wrong with our common sense and
with religion? He (the Holy prophet) observed: Your lack of common sense
(can be well judged from the fact) that the evidence of two women is equal
to that of one man, that is a proof of the lack of common sense, and you
spend some nights (and days) in which you do not offer prayer and in the
month of Ramadan (during the days) you do not observe fast, that is a
failing in religion. This hadith has been narrated on the authority of Abu
Tahir with this chain of transmitters. See also Muslim 448.
However, we must make very clear that women not offering prayer during
their menses in the month of Ramadan is NOT a failing in their religion at
all it was a concession allowed by Allah in His revelation. Women were
simply required to make up the missed days at some other time before the
next Ramadan month.
Therefore, anyone of you who witnesses that month should fast therein, and
whoever is ill or upon a journey shall fast a similar number of days later
on. Allah intends your well-being and does not want to put you to hardship.
He wants you to complete the prescribed period so that you should glorify
His Greatness and render thanks to Him for giving you guidance. 2:185:
Imam Malik did not regard travelling as being a good enough reason. No one
who, by the Book of Allah, has to fast may break his fast except for a
reason - illness or menstruation. He must not travel and break his fast."
Malik said, "This is the best that I have heard about the matter."
Fiqh as-Sunnah 1.71a: If women fast (while menstruating during Ramadan),
their fasting will be considered null and void. If they fast during the
month of Ramadan, they will still have to make those days of fasting up
later on. Mu'adhah said, "I asked 'Aishah, 'Why must we make up the fasts
missed due to our menstruation, and not the prayers (missed through
menstruation)?' She said, 'That was what the Messenger of Allah told us to
do. We were ordered to make up the fasts, and we were ordered not to make
up the prayers."
As regards the witness of two women being required instead of one, the
shariah generally accepts that this is advisable in cases where women have
little knowledge and no expertise of the subject. In matters where their
witness would be just as valid as a mans, the witness of one women is
Narrated Abu Hurairah: While we were sitting with the Prophet a man came
and said, "O Allah's Apostle! I have been ruined." Allah's Apostle asked
what was the matter with him. He replied "I had sexual intercourse with my
wife while I was fasting." Allah's Apostle asked him, "Can you afford to
manumit a slave?" He replied in the negative. Allah's Apostle asked him,
"Can you fast for two successive months?" He replied in the negative. The
Prophet asked him, "Can you afford to feed sixty poor persons?" He replied
in the negative. The Prophet kept silent and while we were in that state, a
big basket full of dates was brought to the Prophet . He asked, "Where is
the questioner?" He replied, "I (am here)." The Prophet said (to him),
"Take this (basket of dates) and give it in charity." The man said, "Should
I give it to a person poorer than I? By Allah; there is no family between
its (i.e. Medina's) two mountains who are poorer than I." The Prophet
smiled till his premolar teeth became visible and then said, "Feed your
family with it."Bukhari 3.157.
Narrated Abdullah: A Jew came to the Prophet and said, "O Muhammad! Allah
will hold the heavens on a Finger, and the mountains on a Finger, and the
trees on a Finger, and all the creation on a Finger, and then He will say,
'I am the King.' " On that Allah's Apostle smiled till his premolar teeth
became visible, and then recited: "No just estimate have they made of Allah
such as due to him..." (39.67) 'Abdullah added: Allah's Apostle smiled (at
the Jew's statement) expressing his wonder and belief in what was said.
Narrated AbuDharr: Allah's Apostle (peace be upon him) said: I know the
last of the inhabitants of Paradise to enter it and the last of the
inhabitants of Hell to come out of it. He is a man who would be brought on
the Day of Resurrection and it will be said: Present his minor sins to him,
and withhold from him his serious sins. Then the minor sins would be placed
before him, and it would be said: On such and such a day you did so and so
and on such and such a day you did so and so. He would say: Yes. It will
not be possible for him to deny, while he would be afraid lest serious sins
should be presented before him. It would be said to him: In place of every
evil deed you will have good deed He will say: My Lord! I have done things
I do not see here. I indeed saw the Messenger of Allah laugh till his front
teeth were exposed. Muslim 82.
Then he advised them not to laugh when somebody breaks wind and said, "Why
should anybody laugh at what he himself does?" Bukhari 6.466.
Narrated Anas bin Malik: Whenever Allah's Apostle went to Quba, he used to
visit Um Haram bint Milhan who would offer him meals; and she was the wife
of 'Ubada bin As-samit. One day he went to her house and she offered him a
meal, and after that he slept, and then woke up smiling. She (Um Haram)
said, "I asked him, 'What makes you laugh, O Allah's Apostle?' He said,
'Some people of my followers were displayed before me as warriors fighting
for Allah's Cause and sailing over this sea, kings on thrones,' or said,
'like kings on thrones.' (The narrator, Ishaq is in doubt about it). I (Um
Haram) said, 'O Allah's Apostle! Invoke Allah that He may make me one of
them.' He invoked (Allah) for her and then lay his head and slept again and
then woke up smiling. I asked, 'What makes you laugh, O Allah's Apostle?'
He said, 'Some people of my followers were displayed before me as warriors
fighting for Allah's Cause and sailing over this sea, kings on the
thrones,' or said, 'like kings on the thrones.' I (Um Haram) said, 'O
Allah's Apostle! Invoke Allah that He may make me one of them.' He said,
'You will be amongst the first ones.' " It is said that Um Haram sailed
over the sea at the time of Muawiya, and on coming out of the sea, she fell
down from her riding animal and died." Bukhari 8.299.
(Many passages in this article were taken from her book on the Life of the
Prophet, due out later this year inshaAllah, and where no reference is
given to the sahih hadith collections, they were derived from Ibn Hisham or
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